Hearing from Pastor J

In this segment of Kingdom Family Series, I wish to introduce Pastor Weng Cheong and Yee Fun. Both of these are our home grown ministers of God. Came to New Life and born again in our church, they have grown to be successful ministers in our NLRC Church Family. They are our spiritual son and daughter.  We are very proud of them. We have seen them in joy and in tears on account of labouring in the Lord’s harvest field. But they have never complained not ever thought negatively about God and our spiritual family. They tenaciously served from one stage to another. Today, they are effectively serving God with their family with wisdom and in the power of the Holy Spirit. They told me repeatedly, more than ever, they feel the Kingdom vision and church planting are unique to NLRC and it is God’s call to our Group. So they are into building foundations for future success. If they have to restructure, they will do so, so that they will groom up strong leaders for future multiplication. These are special God’s servants indeed.

Love,

Jeremiah Yap

October 2016

 

The Values of Kingdom Life & Kingdom Family

by Pr Wong Weng Cheong & Ng Yee Fun

 

Understanding of Kingdom Life should not remain just theory, more importantly it is how we apply and live out its values in our daily living.

Our Story

Esther and I place great emphasis on the family, so much so that everything we do starts from the family. I praise the Lord that we enjoy a good marital relationship, and God blessed us with three daughters.  Most worthy of thanks is the fact that they are all very teachable. They have a sense of security and good self-esteem in their growing up years. Whenever they are faced with obstacles or failures, they know their home is their best refuge. Dad and Mom are always there by their side when they need a shoulder to cry on, to guide, strengthen and encourage them to get back on their feet again. As parents, we know we have to portray the image of God the Father before our children, with love and honesty, according to the Scriptures. Whilst our foundation of life is firmly rooted in God’s righteousness, Yee Fun and I are careful to show them God’s unconditional love and acceptance. These explain why our home is filled with laughter always. As Yee Fun is one who honors her husband, as a father, I know that when I love my wife dearly, our children will feel the warmth and love of the family.

 

“I like my family” is the expression of joy from our daughters regularly. We are truly grateful to the Lord for all these.

 

Our daughters spend their growing up years in church life and are serving in church ministry. They are growing spiritually in knowledge, wisdom and faith in the Lord. Yee Fun and I are so encouraged by them.

I want to make a special thanksgiving about my 94-year-old mother. She has been staying with us all these while and we take care and look after her. Despite being afflicted with Alzheimer’s Syndrome since over 20 years ago, God has taught us to put in practice the culture of honor and filial piety towards her. Our children witness how we love and take care of their grandmother since young. As a result, I have never heard them murmur while taking care and cleaning after grandmother. Praise the Lord. “Honour your father and your mother, so that you may live long in the land the LORD your God is giving you.” (Exodus 20:12)

 

Conclusion

Praise the Lord for giving us a chance to put into practice these Kingdom values. I am convinced that an exemplary life is the most effective means to pass down our legacy to the next generation. In these end times, let’s bear witness to these values that undergird Kingdom Life and Kingdom Family through our personal walk and family.

 

Introducing Pastor SS Loh and Vivienne…

If there are two words to describe Pastor Loh and Vivienne in New Life Restoration Centre PJ, these would be “tenacity” and “faithfulness”. Knowing them from the early years of pre-Christ to now, they have remained faithful to Jesus and the church for many years. I have also seen Loh’s tenacity in beating life’s odds to muster Christ’s victory in his personal life. From that, he and Vivienne have successfully raised a family that trusts in Jesus.

I recalled Loh’s early personal challenges. With his discipline in scripture memory and church ministry and support, he beats the devil at his intentions to “kill, steal and destroy” (John 10:10) people in this modern world with deceptive spiritual and emotional attacks. Loh and Vivienne often say that simple faith in Jesus is what we need. By their simple faith, they have been blessed and they are into the journey to bless others, growing in the ministry of marriage counselling. Their journey of learning and serving in the marriage ministry can only be more and more competent. I can foresee a greater demand for this ministry as people find their need of Bible values because worldly principles are not solving marital difficulties. In the world, their common way is separation or divorce; all ending only in pain.

As Loh and Vivienne grow in their ministry, may the Lord’s wisdom increase with anointing that breaks the yoke of heartaches in marriages and families. Enjoy their Kingdom Family story…

Love,

Jeremiah Yap

September 2016

Kingdom Family & Culture

By Pr SS & Vivienne Loh

I (Pr SS) am blessed with a wonderful wife Vivienne and two lovely daughters Sherine, Suzanne, our son-in-laws Aalva and Aaron and two beautiful grandchildren Kate and Jack and one grandchild on the way for Suzanne and Aaron.

We thank the Lord for His love, saved by His divine grace some 33 years ago. Our children were blessed to be brought up with godly values, guidance & influence in church environment. Our home life and church life were interwoven, so much so that, to our children, church was their spiritual family growing up from toddlers to teens.  Wherever we went they went, from church services to leaders’ meetings, cell groups, prayer meetings you name it. We spend time as a family whenever we can. We always enjoy the time of bonding with them. During their teens both of our girls were involved in areas of worship and youth leading.  And today they are mother and mother-to-be, they continue to experience God’s divine guidance for their lives. Vivienne and I see the importance of godly values in homes, in churches and beyond. The Lord has placed a desire and burden in our hearts for families in the areas of building strong Marriage and Parenting skills. We told the Lord we will give ten years of our lives to serve Him in this area and to raise more couples to perpetuate this ministry for families.

In order to build a strong family, to raise godly off-springs, husbands and wives need tools and skills based on God’s principles in order to work together in agreement and knowing each one’s own role(Malachi 2:15, Amos 3:3). Today, heads of families must have a desire to learn God’s principles to safeguard their children’s destiny and to leave a legacy of faith by teaching God’s truths to their children. We endeavour to model godly parenting, to raise our children in God’s ways, instead of adopting the manner in which we were parented by default.

When our children were young, as a family we pray together daily (today we address it as family altar). As we look back, it is through prayers and with the Lord’s guidance that our children grew up secured and emotionally stable throughout their teen and adult years. Although there are challenges, they know someone greater (God) is with them to help them. Glory to God! Whenever our children, son-in-laws and grandchildren come to visit us we will include praying before they leave for their homes. We can never stop praying for our children and their family.

We now see in our granddaughter Kate who is keen in composing her own music & song, we pray that she will excel in the area of worship. Sherine ensures her children pray before their bedtime.  For our son-in-laws, we pray for the Lord’s guidance upon them to lead their family in Kingdom living daily.

Vivienne & I have completed the season in our lives in raising our children in God’s way.  Now they have family of their own, we are grateful to the Lord for all that He has bestowed. All glory to our Lord Jesus Christ. Amen.

Application:

1. What is your understanding of ‘headship’ in a family?

2.  How should the head of a family (together with the spouse), lead and guide one’s family into Kingdom Living? If you are a parent, how would you endeavour to parent in God’s way?

3. Which are the specific areas you intend to disciple your family in?

I like to introduce Pastor Kwan and Vera of our NLRC Chinese ministry. They both do us proud as our spiritual son and daughter who were saved and born-again in our House, and groomed to go out on church planting. They pioneered the Shah Alam and Klang Chinese churches. They have their eyes keenly on greater disciple-making with a heart of faith for mega impact on the Land of Malaysia. Pastor Kwan told me not long ago, that with his discipleship vision and system in place, he is fully assured of multiplying church growth and churches.

They are now spiritual father and mother in their own right. Vera has been a very important pillar behind her husband Kwan and has been very instrumental in the upbringing of the family and the church. They meet their challenges in the church together and have kept a close eye on their two children so that they may also be raised in the nurture and admonition of the Lord. There is a very bright future in their ministries. We take this opportunity to also congratulate Pastor Kwan on his completion of his degree in Master in Ministry this year.

Love,

Pastor J and Susan

 

Kingdom Family

by Pr Liew Wing Kwan & Vera
God’s Kingdom is one in which God’s rule prevails. As Paul said in Colossians 1:13 (God) has delivered us from the power of darkness and translated us into the kingdom of His dear Son; we are God’s people and citizens of His kingdom and the powers of darkness have no authority over us, the redeemed.  Kingdom family simply means that Jesus is the head of the family in which all matters are to be in line with His purposes and will and they are not to be run according to one’s wishes and preferences.  We need to constantly remind ourselves that Jesus is Lord.

We have two children whom we regard as God’s inheritance for us.  We have named one child “ Yi Le “(meaning God is the joy in his life) just like Enoch who walked with God  and the other child is named “ Yi Xin “ (meaning whose heart is after God’s heart) just like Dorcas who helped the poor and needy.  Since when they were young we have dedicated our children back unto God.  In raising, teaching and nurturing our children we have diligently inculcated in them the truth, concept and values of God’s kingdom.  We often take them with us to the mission field to let them experience the reality and greatness of our God.  In kingdom family, our most important duty as parents is to bring our children into a living relationship with God so that they can experience for themselves the reality of God and His guidance in their lives.

In God’s kingdom the family has a very important role to play.  In particular, the parents’ testimony and foresight have great influence on the spiritual growth and zeal of their children.  As parents we have to make sure that we live our lives in alignment with God’s standards so that we can be good role models to our children.  In addition we have to be careful not to allow the values of the world to make inroads into our lives. Instead, we are to recognise the priority of family in God’s kingdom – let’s keep the most important thing as the most important thing.

Questions to ponder:

1 A secular theory proposes: “Do not let your child be disadvantaged right off the starting line of the (rat) race “. How will this theory potentially affect parents in their parenting style?

2 If you are like most Christian parents who do not want their children to be disadvantaged, what concrete actions can you take in the area of your children’s spiritual / faith development to prepare them to finish the race of life well?

Being a subject or a citizen of a nation has its privileges. When I landed at KLIA2 from a recent trip, I was surprised by the huge crowd that was queuing at the passport control. But Malaysians promptly cleared through the auto gate system within minutes. It’s so cool.

Likewise in the kingdom of God, we have privileges. It is not just eternal. We also have the King’s heavenly life that we may enjoy on earth. More than that, we have a purpose to live for in the Father’s business while on earth. We have a destiny.

Husbands in particular must not miss this. God has a system. It is His divine order. It includes giving the husband the privilege, opportunity and position for God to pour out His heavenly blessings to flow to his wife and children. This is indeed an awesome privilege! So what does it take for the husband to enjoy God’s kingdom privileges and be useful to God to bless the entire family?

Some would say you need to be born again and enter the kingdom of God. You would become a child of God. These are given. We are not talking about privileges as children. We are talking about privileged dads and husbands. Maybe that is the problem. Most people only think of themselves as children of God, not as grown-ups in God.

Husbands and dads have responsibilities along with the joy of having a family and the fun that comes with watching little children grow, working through with the wife as a couple; managing a household that becomes as a home, grooming the family to prosper with a good future for the family. This is the dream of most newly-weds.

The main factor about being privileged by God for the family is entrustment. God is entrusting husbands with a family. Anyone can get married and have a family. Anyone can have the privilege to be blessed by God because Jesus died for all. But some do better than others and are able to experience God’s blessings, love, hope, faith, favour and power in and through them. Especially in times of crisis or desperate need, people turn to the Lord for help or healing. Some receive God’s mercy and grace, while others just wonder. The main question is how serious are we in this entrustment God has given us toward leading the whole family in the ways of the Lord Jesus Christ.

Associated with entrustment is alignment. It is needful to realize that our life, outlook and attitudes, must be aligned to God’s truths under His open heaven. Unfortunately many, who have come to Christ, keep their outlook according to their own thinking, not in heaven’s wisdom, not in God’s ways of love and faith. At times it is too late to muster these in crisis.

One of the greatest stumbling blocks in marriage, family and even in church life is about money. People quarrel, fight and divorce due to money. Strangely, money has a way to reveal a person’s true inner self. Whether one has a big heart, narrow mind, stingy spirit or a heart of giving and generosity are related to how one looks at money. It determines if he will be easily given to bitterness and misery or to joy and freedom. To the husband, be reminded that these affect the wife and children, and also other relationships. If not careful, this may even pass down to the children’s outlook in life, affecting their future relationships.

When aligned under God, submitted to Him in His economy and financial wisdom, there is freedom and blessings, and definitely less anxiety. There will be greater peace and joy, two characteristic components of the kingdom of God (Rom 14:17). Jesus made it clear that if we seek first His kingdom and righteousness, physical needs (and I believe it definitely includes money) will be added to us. What it means is the priority of the dad and husband in God’s kingdom thinking than his own preoccupation, logic and self-centred ways. God’s order has its own rules in order that His system flows in His divine blessings. Read the Bible for yourself and decide your obedience to God’s standards. Don’t live on hearsay.

Husbands who are called to privileges in God’s kingdom must decide. Stay in your own thinking and remain in the family setting you have created (good or miserable), or be aligned to God’s heavenly wisdom which God destined for good and prosperity, and be influential around you, usable by God as light of the world. Most significantly is the spiritual legacy you leave behind to your wife and children, whether it is of faith, love and hope, or is it just plain old misery.

Jeremiah Yap

 

To see how one complements the other in a marriage, look at Pastor Patrick and Bee Long. Most are familiar with Pastor Patrick because he is at the front in ministry. Let me introduce Bee Long. Apparently at the back, she is by no means a laid back person. She is a very effective professional teacher and is at the top in her profession. Very thoughtful, stable, faithful and dependable in anything entrusted to her.

Both pioneered our first two NLRC Chinese churches. Both are pastoral at heart and are still at it since their early start with us in 1980’s. Bee Long is one of our first converts in her university days. I still remember how she was “matched” to Patrick in the church that was in Damansara Utama by the Lord in an interesting way. We “gave her away” on her wedding day from our home to be married to Patrick. This is special and it brings back a good fond memory. It is great to see the family has grown up. Enjoy their testimony on kingdom family…….

Love,

Pastor Jeremiah Yap

 

Kingdom Family Culture

By Pr Patrick Lai & Bee Long

In our world, all earthly kingdoms indicate a measure of either past or present possession of real power or control over a domain. And since God called us a “royal priesthood” (1 Peter 2:9), there must be some real substantial power innate in us, his children, and we are called to possess and inherit the nations (Psalm 2:8). In the Kingdom of God, we have only ONE KING – the Lord of Lords and King of Kings- the Lord Jesus Christ, and we are to surrender all our rights and wrongs to his sovereignty. For us, the little ‘royals’, herein lies the work cut out – how do we live out a surrendered life in the kingdom?

As Pr Jeremiah has proclaimed Kingdom annual themes, the deeper one delves into the subject of Kingdom Life, there is no escaping the reality of spiritual power and warfare. When our daughter Grace was born, as a young father, I had to learn to exercise my responsibility as the spiritual headship over the family especially when my first born was very ill while in infancy, very much related to the onset of haze, a new phenomenon in the 1990s. Sensing there was a tussle in the spiritual realm, Pr J and leaders rallied in prayer with Bee Long and me as young parents, fighting and asserting our authority in Christ, and Grace recovered from prolonged bouts of coughs and pneumonia. Those were early days of Kingdom reality.

But Kingdom parenthood was not without some fun in everyday life. In the early days of our bi-vocational ministry, we travelled weekly with our babies, Grace and Elise, in Klang valley and sometimes further afield, on week nights and Sundays. For mobile convenience, we had the biggest and sturdiest baby potty which travelled with us when the girls were young. Although Patrick was not much of a driver, but for family reunions on Chinese New Year, we travelled from Johor to Perak every CNY, and we had worship song sessions in the car as they grew up on those trips and we listened to our favourite cassettes, CDs on songs and musicals. Bee Long was good with babies, remarked some other ladies. It was no wonder the girls had good early childhood. And I (Patrick), on the other hand, had to learn fast as a father as the years flew by, when babies turned into young ladies almost overnight.

On hindsight, we have much to be thankful for, Grace and Elise learnt much about God and his presence in the local body of believers, built friendships,  found their spiritual mooring as they commit themselves to Lord, the church, be it at children church or youth church level. They learnt discipleship through participation and leading. And each has found her niche in church ministry and has her own mission stories to tell. Grace went on mission to Sri Lanka in her teen years without us when the Tamil Tigers were still a real military threat with their suicide bombers, and Elise had one month teaching experience with Peribumi children, living among the Penans in Borneo jungles. Bee Long and I can’t emphasize enough the role of parents – working with the local church leadership and body of believers that has benefited our family – to be found in the family of God.

(Psalm 84:10) Better is one day in your courts than a thousand elsewhere; I would rather be a doorkeeper in the house of my God than dwell in the tents of the wicked.

Application:

1. What do you understand from the verse 1 Peter 2:9 about who we are in God’s eye?

(NIV) But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, a people belonging to God, that you may declare the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light.

2. What are some fun memories for your family when children were growing up?

3. How do you think 1 Peter 2:9 & Psalm 84:10 apply to you personally and in your family life relating to church life? 

 

This month Pastor Jeffrey and Jaecie Lam writes regarding Kingdom Family. I congratulate them on this insightful write-up. Both Jeffrey and Jaecie are our home grown servants of God. Born-again in the house, raised up as leaders in the house and plant our Cheras English church within our New Life Household. They are our son and daughter indeed! I remember their early days of conversion and courtship well, even today.

I have seen them grow through stages of their lives as a couple. Some stages were very difficult. There were moments of great loss and grief, and moments of great transformation in their lives be they emotional strengthening, mental maturing or financial tenacity. Most of all, they grew spiritually through their thick and thin. They have weathered through much and are still on top, serving the Lord faithfully. Now you know why we are proud of them.

I believe they are into a new season of God’s grace and favour. So will be their church in Cheras. The fruit of their ministry is in their people. The quality of the members in their maturity and willingness to shoulder ministry in and out of the church have been visible. They are building kingdom families in a kingdom church.

God bless them and NLRC Cheras and we thank the Lord we are together in the greater NLRC FAMILY.

Love,

Pastor Jeremiah Yap

 

Kingdom Family – Our Perspective

By Pr. Jeffrey & Jaecie Lam

God’s Kingdom Living has its fundamental emphasis in relationships – between us & God the Father, between us & God the Son in Jesus, between one another in the faith and with relating the Great commission to the unsaved people of the earth.

Let us be reminded that we are living in the last days where the evil one seems to be winning – more broken homes, high rate of divorces even amongst believers, unashamed immorality, high suicides rates etc. The point is, it is not the time for ‘business as usual’ for Christians. We must choose where our priority is, for us & our family, and we must choose now. Do not wait for calamity to strike our loved ones before we run after Christ. The challenge Joshua threw to the believers then, is as much in our face even today:

“And if it seems evil to you to serve the Lord, choose for yourselves this day whom you will serve, whether the gods which your fathers served that were on the other side of the River, or the gods of the Amorites, in whose land you dwell. But as for me and my house, we will serve the Lord.” (Joshua 24:15)

And yet amidst all the challenges, the blessings that come from Heaven’s Kingdom into our families remain overwhelming. Please refer Deuteronomy Chapter 28 for a list of these blessings, albeit a non-exhaustive list.

Our personal experiences of Kingdom Family Living

Role-modelling of fundamental Christian values were more impactful when our two children were still young, probably up to 12 years of age.  Family altars, scripture memorising, bible-story telling & play-acting were well received & left deep impressions then. As they approached their teenage years, there probably were more misses than hits though.

As parents of two teenage children, when confrontation was met with rebellion, we just clung on to the grace of God and be in earnest united prayer and kept trying to help them grow in God. Sending them to Christian youth camps & workshops did help tremendously. Another helpful way was to surround them with godly Christian peers who will be their friends. And reading their Facebook postings helped us to get a glimpse of what was happening in their lives. We tried to be alert to their teachable moments, like conversations over mealtimes, whilst travelling together or watching their TV programmes with them.

On the other hand, our children can help us grow too. We’d seek their reflection of the Sunday service, from their perspective, so as to help correct any misconception, and to help ascertain what point is important to emphasise in our sermon application.

We need to ensure our home atmosphere is always hospitable & a safe-haven for all always – for our kids, their friends & the members of the church & especially the pre-believers.  We are grateful that, by our example, many have felt loved & have become faithful in church. And lastly, with teenagers, be always prepared to forebear broken porcelains … with a wide smile!

Reflection:

1.    What are two Christian values you are still struggling to practise?  Be painfully honest if you would.

2.    Share two disappointments & two successes you encountered in your quest to strengthen ties in your family.

New Life Restoration Centre started with six people. Besides my wife Susan and I, there was Pastor Joshua Lee, now our Pastor of Shah Alam English Church. Out of the six, three left to work in Singapore.

Joshua stayed through the years of early challenges in church planting. He and his twelve string guitar formed our orchestra in our seedling church. He later married Yin Chun, a wonderful Sister whom we appreciate and love. Pastor Joshua, whom we also fondly called Pastor Chin Ban, has been faithful and wonderfully fruitful in the Lord, not only in his career as an Financial Controller in his company, and Pastor, he has also been effective as a family person.

Yin Chun must be acknowledged too. Both have raised a family with two sons having their own careers and also walking closely with the Lord and serving Him. A quality that is most amazing about Joshua is that he never failed to stay positive, no matter what happens. His faith in Jesus has taken him through his entire journey of life with a powerful testimony. He is a great encouragement to many of us in NLRC, and many more out in his world.

God bless,

Pastor Jeremiah Yap

May 2016

The Value of Kingdom Life & Kingdom Family

By Pr Joshua & Yin Chun Lee

The Value of Kingdom Life and Kingdom Family

Psalm 128
1 Blessed are all who fear the Lord, who walk in obedience to him.
2 You will eat the fruit of your labor; blessings and prosperity will be yours.
3 Your wife will be like a fruitful vine within your house; your children will be like olive shoots around your table.
4 Yes, this will be the blessing

Psalm 128 lays the foundation of Kingdom life and family.  It begins with an exhortation of making a personal commitment, walking in obedience to the written Word with promises of fruitful labor, blessings and prosperity, which are the hallmark values of Kingdom life.

In verse 3, the psalmist begins talking about family. When families are centered on God, the family unit is strengthened. Strong families make strong churches, and strong churches can have a powerful impact on society.

Our Story

In our personal journey with God as a couple, we found marriage courses to be extremely helpful, e.g. United Marriage Encounter, Durrano schools, and various others. We endeavored to pray and read the bible together as a family and took time to go on holidays on a regular basis to strengthen the family ties.

Our children, Jason & Joel, were raised in Sunday school and served in worship, youth and young adults ministries.

The guidance of Christian teachers in school also played a key role in nurturing their faith in God. The school that Jason & Joel attended had a strong Christian fellowship. Coming from various churches, they banded together in early morning prayer and fellowship, and encouraging one another to excel in studies. These Christian kids played active roles in sports and clubs such as the Scout movement, Young Entrepreneur’s Clubs, Red Crescent etc. and made remarkable impact with their Christian outlook and good works.

The strong fellowship among believers in school continued when the boys started working, and many kept in touch and became active in Full Gospel Businessmen’s Fellowship and Graduates Christian Fellowship. Jason initiated a mentoring program (M2- Emerging Leaders Mentoring Program) by connecting successful Christian businessmen with the youth to raise up future God fearing leaders of the nation. Joel in turn did a two(2) year teaching program in Teach for Malaysia, an NGO teaching underprivileged children in low performing schools in Malaysia. It was encouraging to note that a high percentage of those participating in the program were Christian teachers with a mission to make a difference in society.

Challenges

As a couple, some of our struggles include balancing the time between church, family and secular work. Having good mentors and support from the New Life family provided useful guidance. Sharing sessions among fellow believers on issues facing our kids such as social media and internet game addiction also helped.

Questions to Ponder:

i) What do you think is the most important factor in building strong relationships?

ii) As parents, in relation to raising children, what mistakes could you have avoided if you can turn back the clock?

As the year progresses, I feel it more and more, that we grow in developing our families in the purpose and power of the kingdom of God. In preaching the gospel, we often offer Jesus as a helper to meet needs and as giver of eternal life. These are truths. This year, our emphasis is for us to know Jesus as one who helps us and meet our needs plus one who grooms us to be useful people for the kingdom of God. To do this meaningfully, primary focus must be given in building our family to be a KINGDOM FAMILY. Our family is not just saved as a household so that we may all go to heaven, we are saved to serve God’s kingdom in society.

Our marriage, family and children should enjoy church life as a beautiful kingdom community. We should also live a kingdom life in God’s righteousness, peace and joy. Most of all we and our children must live with God’s purpose. Life must be meaningful. The Holy Spirit is the one who makes all these possible. Marriage joy, significant dads, fulfilled mums and successful children are totally within our reach in kingdom life. In turn, they influence others in society, at work and school, leaning others to Christ and discipling them in being equally successful and significant.

Yes, it takes learning skills of communication one with another but nothing beats intentional time sharing life together as a family. This is possible when the children are young. When they are grown-ups, time together is harder. It has to be intentional. Make the effort to form a hub-time together as a family, whether around a prayer time, a Bible discussion time or just a family meal time. When we meet and chit-chat, dynamics of relationships take place. It is a precious hub-time.

The following is an article by Sandy and Pastor Yee Onn. They have three fast growing boys, the eldest Ivan, is now in Melbourne studying his foundation year for tertiary education. They have family altar time. Read their article and glean from their experiences as a family that is strongly involved in shepherding and planting churches, living out their kingdom life, and in the goodness, favour and passion for the Lord.

God bless,

Pastor Jeremiah Yap
April 2016

Kingdom Family Culture

By Sandy & Pr Hiew Yee Onn

Kingdom Life is accepting God’s kingship and yielding ourselves totally to His will on earth as it is in heaven.

Living out values of Kingdom family is only feasible when we consistently gather in His name, acknowledging that He rules with His perfect will for all, especially those who look to Him and pray together.

·       Some of the kingdom family values we strive to practice as a family include:

·       Weekly family altar with full participation from all family members in reading, sharing and scripture memories.  As a result, life is transformed, academic results improved, closer family ties, honoring one another (even when we as parents made mistakes, we ask for forgiveness from our children).

·       Speak prayers of blessings to children daily and they came to depend on it as a token of security and a sign of their parents’ continuing love for them.

·       For children facing exam pressures, we have one great testimony of prayers covering for our children during the exam period. I will obtain their exam schedule and paste it on my notice board in front of my bible reading space. This culture of assuring our children that parents remembering them in prayers in each of their exam slots have shown much confidence and better results thus far. I myself was truly amazed at the outcome. Praise the Lord!

·       The funny thing is they like to sit at my devotion desk to study… uttering this “Mum …this place is truly anointed” …somehow they find that this atmosphere of God’s presence attractive and helps they think smartly!!

·       Engaging Holy Spirit in family relationship and aim to live with no regrets.

Relational challenges are real. I can honestly say that obedience to the scriptures to die to self has always been a big challenge for all of us in the family. We and our children may know the scriptures and we do serve in ministry but our humanness will only be revealed when real challenges surface. We can still get temperamental and impatient with one another. For the children, sibling rivalry amidst making comparisons has always been at the top of list of relational challenges. However, God still reigns. When the dusts settled, apologies, reconciliation, mutual assurance and forgiveness are exercised based on the strong bond of love in the family with Holy Spirit as our holiest guest.

As a couple and family, we are amazed as to how the Lord has used us to serve in  church planting, running multiple services and leading a united team of leaders. Would that the key to living out  New Life’s annual themes – being successful in living a kingdom life and flowing into kingdom family – is honoring the presence of God in our life ? This we can testify, His Presence has empowered us to do what are impossible for us to do.

Application:

1.    How to you draw out the hidden qualities in people around you?

2.    What types of serious consequences have you seen happen as a result of reacting in the flesh?

3.    What are the areas of self denial you wish to deal with?